Pat Hartman Sikes

From Bill Sikes
Pat was in an accident on Tuesday morning, March 15, 9:30am. She was turning left (east) onto Route 50 from our side street (Stafford Drive) when a BMW traveling west ran the red light doing 50 mph and hit the front wheel area of her Buick. It knocked her up onto the concrete divider island, pointing southwest, then careened off her car into a van stopped at the light in one of the eastbound lanes. Totaled all three cars.

She called me immediately after the accident and was completely coherent. Since it was at the end of our street I was able to drive up and park in the adjacent office parking lot within a few minutes. The BMW driver admitted running the light AND speeding, total responsibility. Her head hit her side window and her hip hit the door, both were hurting. Nobody thought she was seriously hurt so they offered the choice between Fair Oaks and Fairfax hospitals. We picked Fair Oaks for convenience and away she went in the ambulance, arriving at 10:30am. They did cat scans on her head and xrays on her hip and cleared her to leave at 1:30pm. However, she was feeling nauseous so they gave her a shot to control that. Then we got her dressed and wheeled her to the ER foyer.

When I tried to put her in the car she went completely limp. We got her back in and re-registered (because we had checked out already). Pat thought the anti-nausea medicine had made her extremely tired and less than full control, the ER people thought that was impossible so they ran more tests. That is when they found multiple fractures in her pelvis and internal bleeding. There was no signs of this possibility until we attempted to leave the hospital. Since Fair Oaks isn't equipped to handle that level of trauma she was sent to Fairfax Hospital by helicopter, about 5:00pm. They finally had to do a procedure to stop the internal bleeding at 5:00am and (I was told) put her into an induced coma “so she could heal”. That doctor told me that the next 48 hours were “critical” and that word came up the next day as well.

Pat's kids, Scott and Kim both made arrangements to fly out, and when I asked nurses and doctors if they felt they should come here they all said yes. They definitely thought she was in danger. Apparently there are many things that could still go wrong. That said, as of 8:30pm tonight her nurse told us that she was no longer in the coma, just heavily sedated. What she needs now is rest.

Update as of 10:30am on Thursday, March 17: she is doing better, they had not given her any more fluids, and they said she was more “awake”. I will continue to send updates as I get them.

Saturday, March 19 they had to increase her sedation and let the respirator completely take over her breathing. Since then she has remained level, again a good thing. She is getting the best possible care. We have faith that she will come out of this, but we are aware that cautious optimism is in order.

It is Monday morning, March 21, the kids are scheduled to go home tomorrow, and I think they will. I apologize to all that are getting first knowledge via this email. Please don't call me, I probably won't be able to take the call anyway. I am doing fine, don't worry about me, we - Kim, Scott and myself) don't need anything, concentrate on Pat. Thanks for your prayers and concerns. Do reply, if you want to. Bill.

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Billie Mills

I returned to Sarasota in March of 2010 and really happy to be back. The two years in Virginia I spent helping my friend who was terminally ill, that was the main reason for going back to VA. Now I stay at home and read every book in the Library. My health has limited my activities physically but in my mind I can still dance, lay on the beach and drink all the guys under the table, LOL

Hope you are back on your feet Linda and doing well. I did put you on my prayer list and have kept up on your recovery, aint fb great????

Been trying to find Kathy O'Neil's obit in the Post but didn't find, she died in 1998or 97 of Ovarian Cancer. I was with her until the last moment of life and she was a brave women and tried to fight this all the way to the end.

Did you get information on Vicki Foreman, Ed Smith and Connie Glade. He has a new address in Port Charlotte. Let me know!! Talked to Vicki last night and she cant remember what year Gary Anders died but he lived in Tucson, AZ if you look up Obits. Oh, one more thing have you heard anything from Terry Woodward? He told Steve and I he had MS like Steve and I haven't heard from him in ages. He lived in Fredericksburg.

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Kay Cool

I remarried in 1999 to Pete Polen. I have lived in Manassas since 1965, and both of my boys were born here. It's hard to believe but they are now 45 and 43 years of age. I retired 1/1/04 and took care of my mother until her death in Aug. 2008. I have 4 grandchildren and 7 step-grandchildren, and have done a lot of babysitting since my first one was born. Pete and I are very active in our Church and the house keeps us very busy as well. We have three cats and we enjoy travelling a few times a year. Since my mom died I have had both of my knees replaced and I'm getting around a lot better. I plan on being more active this summer. Let me know if I can help you in any way.

Kay is on Facebook

Update March 9

I sent a notice to the 46 classmates on Facebook. I also sent out notices to emails I have had for awhile. Some were no longer current, but have heard from several people. I understand Amy Shewmaker has passed away. I have her last name as Dayton, but understand she had remarried. If anyone can provide any information I will search for her obituary. Heard from Steve Guch and he will try to get in touch with Bob Hadley and Maitland Sharpe. Bill Sikes has additional email listings - so we are making progress.

Update

Joan Arnold

I retired as of 04/01/2011 and am living on Social Security and Medicare as of 04/01/2011. I will stay in the area for at least another year to explore the area, if I can still afford the gas! Then I may move to some place cheaper and live on the profit from selling my house such as Wilmington, NC, Spartanburg, SC where my cousins live or Charlottesville, VA where a friend just retired.

Joan is on Facebook.

Cort Barnes

I finally retired/retired from consulting with the federal government but I do speaking engagements to community groups, colleges & universities about my time in Iran entitled "Hostage: A personal perspective". I am on Social Security and Medicare and learning to live on a fixed income wasn't as challenging as I thought it would be. I am a docent on the Battleship North Carolina Memorial here in Wilmington and my specialty is Radio Central & the Coding Room (I was in communications at the CIA and in the Navy and this was a natural for me). That keeps me busy in the summer along with golf, going to the GYM three days a week and taking care of my rescue sheltie. My wife works in Fairfax, Virginia for Booze-Allen-Hamilton and wants to work about four more years. When we moved to Wilmington she really missed the D.C. area with it's restaurants and shopping AND her friends. Me, not so much.

Cort is on Facebook

Don Cake

Don and Nickie Cake live in West Palm Beach Gardens, Florida. Since leaving FCHS, Don attended Wofford College and joined the same fraternity as Pete Pillar. For the past five years, Don and Nickie have stayed in close contact with Pete and Nancy, hosting them and their family both in Flordia and at their lake house at Smith Mountain Lake, VA and going to Redskins games together, playing golf and organizing College reunions. Don received his M.A. degree from the University of Arkansas and keeps up with their football program. After a full U.S. Army career, living in Germany, Singapore and Hong Kong, Don retired.... well, almost retired if working only 6 hours a month doesn't count. Don speaks Chinese and enjoys going to Chinese places to practice -- but he doesn't enjoy what China is surely going to do to us if they keep buying up our debts.

Don is on Facebook

Jean Adcock Schoeneman

Until just recently Jean work for Raytheon as a Tech Support Engineer II. Raytheon is in Falls Church, but Jean lives in North Carolina. She is now retired and enjoying more time being a Grandma. She has some great pictures on her Facebok page.

Jean is on Classmates and Facebook.

Joyce Lynn Burnett Allen

When I saw Joyce in the FCHS 63 group on Facebook, I have to admit I did not recognize the name - so when I got a reply to my question, I was embarrassed to realize it was someone I knew quite well - just not the name. I will have to get her to update us as all I could get from her Facebook page is that she is a Democrat and living in Tampa, Florida.

Joyce is on Facebook.

Joan Arnold

Joan lives in Herndon, Va and works for Mitre Corporation. Since 2005, Joan has been raising her granddaughter, Heaven, who was born in 2002, and enjoying all the ups and downs of such. Having to include Heaven in all her activities, does limit Joan's social life. Joan had planned to retire, but that's been put on hold.

Joan is on Facebook

Sandra MacPherson

Sandy completed the Nursing program at Augsburg and worked at North Memorial Medical Center. She is now back in the DC area and working in Fairfax.

Sandy is on Facebook.

Elena Codispoti Aseltine

Elena is a OB/GYN Nurse Practitioner working for Pat Spalding, MD in San Luis Obispo, California.

Elena is on Facebook

Sam Eddy

Sam lives in the San Francisco area in the Marin Headlands and is still working as a law enforcement ranger for the Park Service. He retired from the United States Park Police 15 years ago and transferred to the Park Service. Last year Sam spent some time in Viet Nam and Thailand. He has had some medical problems and in the spring was recovering from a right carotid endarterectomy. He had a couple of mini strokes (TIA's) but fortunately they found the blockage and removed it. He has been back to full duty since July. His daughter, Samantha is a senior this year at UC Santa Cruz majoring in French and wants to go to France and teach English to French students.

Sam is on Classmates.

Nancy Kelm Bernot

Nancy still lives in the Washington area, and like so many of us has been going to the Outer Banks of NC for vacation for the past 14 years. Nancy has 8 grandchildren and 1 great-granddaughter.

Nancy is on Classmates

Paul Loughton

Paul did not make it to the 25th or any of the other get togethers we have had, but he will make every effort to get to the 50th. He is living in Utah and has some great photos of his son and daughter posted on Classmates. He has even posted a picture from the musical Music Man in '63. Paul looks forward to hearing more about the arrangements for the 50th and has volunteered to help in some way. His message to me said - "Go Jaguars, Semper Fi."

Paul is on Facebook and Classmates.

Billie Mills

Billie's greatest passion is Art and Crafts. She started painting in 2004, and some of her paintings and photos are on artwanted.com. Art has become her outlet to relieve pain. With Fibromyalgia, pain is what she has had to face every day but Art has been her savior. Billie never married or had children but did lots of traveling and met tons of people. She worked for a software/computer corporation for 25 years that sold only to the feds. About 7 years ago Billie had to go on medical disability and moved to Sarasota/Bradenton Florida. to enjoy the rest of her life in the sunshine. However, Billie has moved back to Virginia and lives in Gainesville some of the time. In June, she was house sitting in Rehoboth Beach, Delaware. In September she will be moving on to Ocean City, MD where she will house sit and live this winter.

Billie is on Classmates

Pat Hartman Sikes

Pat is married to Bill Sikes and lives in Fairfax, VA. For an update see Bill's entry.

Bill Sikes

Bill lives in Fairfax with his wife, also a classmate, Pat Hartman. They will be celebrating their 20th anniversary on September 9th. I was told they never dated in high school and hadn't seen each other for 25 years until the first reunion planning committee meeting for the 25th reunion. Bill has been instrumental in several of the gatherings since the 25th and got the ball rolling for the 50th with the first planning meeting earlier this year. At that time he said that they were planning to move to Florida - but haven't left yet!.

Bill is on Facebook

Dian Crawford

Dian works as a bookkeeper for Allen & Rocks in Herndon, VA.

Dian is on Facebook and Classmates

Cortlandt (Cort) Barnes

Cort and Cynthia are getting settled into the Leland/Wilmington area and enjoying life. They enjoy traveling to the Caribbean and Europe and not shoveling snow! Cort is an independent consultant (Cortlandt Enterprises) for the US Government and often travels to the northern Virginia area on business.

Cort is on Facebook and Classmates

Carroll Rehmann Popps

Carroll Popps is a personal trainer living in San Antonio specializing in weight training and diet consultation.

Carroll is on Facebook.

Carol Kinsey

Carol left the Northern Virginia area in 1970 for Spain with her children and Naval Petty Officer husband. Since then she has lived in Japan, CA, and now Hampton Roads area of VA, losing the husband along the way. She has 4 adult children (3 girls - 2 in MD and one in Houston and one son in Denver). She has 4 grandsons and one granddaughter. She feels blessed to have such wonderful children, a life free of pain and major strife, and a job that pays the bills and affords me the lifestyle to which I am accustom. She works as the Travel Manager for Jefferson Lab in Newport News. Carol came to the first 50th reunion meeting and has the expertise to negotiate for the reunion location.

Carol is on Facebook

Blaise Fallon

Blaise currently lives in New York in a 200 year old farm house in the country overlooking the largest of the finger lakes. An avid photographer, geek and woodworker, ( his own words) he teaches computer security in this life. In previous lives he was an engineer, inventor, salesman, MIS manager and typewriter repairman.

Blaise is on Facebook.

Joe Healey

Joe is a professor at Christopher Newport University in Newport News, VA. He is in Atlanta on his way to a conference in San Francisco. He will attend a day-long business meeting of the National Honor Society of which he is the president-elect and then, Sat.-Mon., catch up on the latest sociological research and thought.

A few weeks ago, Joe led a jam session in the park behind his house. The video is excellent but they chopped up the music in the editing so its not 100% great. Maybe 50 people showed up and all kinds of music got played. If the link doesn't work, seach Youtube for "Moonlight and Music at New Quarter Park"
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vNo2U0mv5bc

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Terry Coffman

Terry is living in Jefferson, Wisconsin working as an artist, still recording and has published two books. One, of his recent artwork and the other an historical fiction on the lost journals of Vincent VanGogh. On Saturday, September 12, 2009 he will open his studio loft to friends, fellow artists, collectors, buyers, neighbors and the public from noon to 4pm. You can visit his painting studio, exhibition gallery and the loft living space in Jefferson WI.
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To read his monthly newsletter or find out more about Terry, go to his website www.terrencecoffmanstudios.com.
Center Avenue Studio 123 North Center Avenue Jefferson, WI. (920) 674-4674

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